Friend Trouble..need some advice

[jnt667]

Okay so i have this one friend..shes one of my best friends...but lately...she hasnt been too nice to me. I always feels like she judges me and looks for the wrong in me. and most of the time i just bite my tongue because I dont wanna lose a friend. But she always finds the wrong in people but i feel like she views herself as perfect. She doesnt like it when i hang out with my friends that she doesnt like. She criticizes me for a lot of stuff. She is VERY sensitive so I havent said anything but all my friends that know her think this also because she does it to EVERYONE. She gives people the wrong impression sometimes and i hate how people think shes a brat and stuff but she talks down to everyone. What should i do? I know if i talk to her shes just gonna get mad at me and i dont wanna lose a friend but she is being very rude to everyone!! HELP! what do i do?

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[Jenni]

Do your other friends treat you this way?  maybe try to talk to her but have another friend with you who notices the way she is treating others.

[Youthfully Yoked]

It sounds like your friend is a bit childish and has insecurities. Usually people are insecure about something about themselves that's why they have to put down others. I believe you should talk to her but remember its all in the approach. You can't just call her out but approach her with God. That is to say if she knows HIM. Maybe you can tell her that you love her and been praying for her but your negative attitude isn't cool. Offer to take her to church or something. If she gets crazy with you then that just means that you two are growing apart. Pray for her. But do not surround yourself around that it will either dwell in you or drain you and you don't want either. When you are a child of God you become a new creature. Things you use to do or are use to hearing don't appeal to you anymore. So I am proud of you for taking a stand. God Bless